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Bonus: 2023 International Cultic Studies Association Annual Conference Presentation – Prosocial Distancing – Jehovah’s Witnesses and Covid

This is a recording of my presentation at the 2023 International Cultic Studies Association annual convention in Louisville, Kentucky.  It was recorded on Friday July 30 in front of a live audience, as well as streamed online for those with tickets to the event.  The theme of the conference was “The Cult Phenomenon in the Covid World”.  My presentation was about the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses and their response to the pandemic.

Jehovah’s Witnesses are a doomsday cult. They believe that this world is getting nothing but worse every day and that it will devolve into a period of time known as the Great Tribulation for mankind that will be followed by a fiery Armageddon in which their god will have the wicked (or basically non-Jehovah’s Witnesses) killed so that the righteous (or Jehovah’s Witnesses) can live at peace in a world that will be turned back into the Garden of Eden.

While prosocial behavior is about helping and comforting and having empathy for others, Jehovah’s Witnesses were busy hoping that this calamity was going to usher in even more calamity so that they could get their promised reward of salvation at the expense of everyone else.

Jehovah’s Witnesses took a very firm stance on the virus itself from the beginning. They shut down their in-person meetings and also the door to door preaching work that they’re known all over the world for. But what makes Jehovah’s Witnesses different than most others is the length of time that they remained shut down. They didn’t go back to their Kingdom Hall gatherings until April 1 of 2022. For all of that time they had been having their meetings, their conventions, everything on Zoom and on their JW.org website. That was their only real attachment to the indoctrination they received.

Instead of knocking on doors, Jehovah’s Witnesses were writing form letters to individuals to spread their message. Just to show that the real reason for their preaching work is to reinforce beliefs and keep their members busy so that they can’t think about what they’re taught or get into other things, these letters were hand written. If the goal was really to reach as many people as possible, we know that they could type out one letter, print copies, and spend their time envelope stuffing. Rather than do that, the members spend their time hand writing these letters to send.

The cult also had another trick up their sleeve that I don’t think anyone saw coming.

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Jehovah’s Witnesses never let a tragedy go to waste. They can always find some way to exploit it for their own benefit, in this case taking food for the needy and using it for their own interests. The guise of prosocial behavior, the reality being very distanced from that.

The last couple of years had made it easy on them to be what we call PIMO, or physically in but mentally out, because they could just turn on a Zoom meeting and be present with their camera off while playing video games or doing anything else, all to keep some sort of status in the congregation that would prevent shunning from friends and family. The pandemic gave them great cover, but it was also false cover, shoving the harsh realities of what they were involved in into their face when they weren’t expecting the inevitable.

At times it was the fact that they started questioning things on the outside that led them to questioning things on the inside. For instance:

Some were upset that the cult was pushing the vaccines because they had concerns about it. How could “The Truth”, as Jehovah’s Witnesses refer to themselves, be promoting something that they personally saw as a lie.

Others saw the messaging around masking and vaccines as propaganda, and in their eyes it helped them to see propaganda that they had already been exposed to.

Some started looking more into science in general, and that led them to questioning other things that they had been taught.

Still others saw a fervor for science as “The Truth” and the disavowing of anyone, including other scientists, that disagreed as a reflection of the fervor for their religious truth and shunning in their religion.

There are takeaways from all of this.

We can see how an external event that cost the cult their current control led many individuals to take control back and to find freedom. We can see that it helps if we can get people that are currently invested in a cult to find time and space from that constant pressure of indoctrination. We can see that many are still stuck in cults that don’t want to be there. There are untold numbers of people inside the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses that don’t want to be there, but it is a captive organization, one that will gaslight and extort you in every way possible to get you in and to keep you there. We need to see how these cults capitalize on tragedy for their own designs so that we can understand what these people are up against. We need to understand all of the hooks that these organizations use to keep people stuck in order to help provide resources that they could seek out when they are ready to start shaking free.

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Episode 144 – You’re Not My Homeland Anymore – Rachel is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses

Growing up, Rachel moved roughly 15 times between the ages of 5 and 19. Without much stability other than the consistency of the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses and her parents in her life, she was forced to move and adapt to new situations without attaching to anything. The out of control feelings and trauma stood to threaten her very existence, but eventually Rachel found better days outside of the cult and more stability in her life. This is Rachel’s story.

The songs that Rachel chose to represent her journey are I Did Something Bad by Taylor Swift, My Tears Ricochet by Taylor Swift, and I’m Not Angry Anymore by Paramore.

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This podcast was made possible by my original podcast This JW Life. You can find it on any podcast app. It is a 9 part series about life as Jehovah’s Witnesses designed to help you understand how it worked in one comprehensive story and to help you process your own if you came from that environment.

Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 143 – Spencer Saves The Day

Behind the scenes of a rock concert for Saves The Day, Spencer gets to interact with these “worldly” people that weren’t Jehovah’s Witnesses, and he sees that he doesn’t need to save them like he had been told his whole life by the cult. Eventually Spencer comes to realize that the only person he truly needs to save is himself.

The song that Spencer chose to represent his journey is Even If It Kills Me by Motion City Soundtrack.

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Episode 142 – How Is This Fair? – Joel is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses

While some religions speak about the concept of grace, the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses has another term for it… “undeserved kindness”. This is the underpinning of what it is to be one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, to know that you don’t deserve any chance at salvation as a good for nothing sinner, and to know that you don’t even deserve the life that you have now. For Joel, he had something else going on internally that served as yet an extra obstacle to his existence in the cult, and he was left wondering how that could possibly be fair. Why would he have something above and beyond what others had to contend with to try to be good enough for a God that hated a part of who he was.

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Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 141 – You Don’t Even Know Me – Jarvis is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses

If your true thoughts and feelings were put on display in a lineup of Jehovah’s Witnesses, would your own parents be able to pick you out? Like so many, Jarvis knew that who he was and who he was expected to be were not necessarily congruent. He found himself living for others because he just wanted to make his parents proud, but in the end he came to realize that when everything broke down, they didn’t even know their own son. Unlike them, he came to the defense of a gay friend, he struggled to judge people with the harsh judgment of the cult, and ultimately he stood up for himself, a self that nobody ever knew.

You can find Jarvis on Instagram @jarvis_tha_artist

The song that Jarvis chose to represent his journey is What’s Normal Anyway by Miguel.

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Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.


Episode 140 – Spiritual Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy – Israel is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses

Munchausen syndrome by proxy is a form of mental illness and child abuse whereby a caretaker may make a child think that they are sick or may cause real symptoms in a child to make them sick. The caretaker gets attention through their sick children. In this episode we meet Israel and his caretakers that get attention by making him feel like he is wrong and needs to do what they want him to do in order to be well, resulting in attention for those that are pushing him to believe he must overcome his spiritual sickness by doing things that shine positive attention on them.

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Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 139 – Child Bride – Growing Up In A Sufi Community

Today Tamara MC, PhD is an author and activist for women and girls. Growing up, Tamara’s father joined a Sufi cult that took her father away and left her with the women of the community at the age of just five years old. Caught between two worlds between her home with her mother and her new home with her father, she would find herself a child bride when she was twelve. This is her story. You can find her online at https://tamaramc.com/

The song that Tamara chose to represent her journey is Heaven by Bryan Adams.

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Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 138 – Kidnapped – Child Custody & Jehovah’s Witnesses

A little girl on a bike ride. A car with a man in it that seems familiar in an unfamiliar place. The result is a long custody battle, a lot of brainwashing, and ultimately a woman that realizes she was raised by Watchtower and the cult of Jehovah’s Witnesses.

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This podcast was made possible by my original podcast This JW Life. You can find it on any podcast app. It is a 9 part series about life as Jehovah’s Witnesses designed to help you understand how it worked in one comprehensive story and to help you process your own if you came from that environment.

Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 137 – Nazi Bedtime Stories – Johanna is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses

Imagine being five years old and having your dad reading you scary stories about the Nazi persecution of Jehovah’s Witnesses to send you off to sleep. Those stories were often tied into the fiery Armageddon that would accompany the persecution and violence to come into the lives of Witnesses as the world would come to an end. Johanna had those stories firmly in mind in 2020, when the world descended into fear around the Covid 19 pandemic. The fear had come full circle, and it was a pivotal moment in her life. This is Johanna’s story.

The song that Johanna chose to represent her journey is Grey Street by Dave Matthews Band.

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This podcast was made possible by my original podcast This JW Life. You can find it on any podcast app. It is a 9 part series about life as Jehovah’s Witnesses designed to help you understand how it worked in one comprehensive story and to help you process your own if you came from that environment.

Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.

Episode 136 – A Beautiful Process – Karen

Courage isn’t the absence of fear, but rather feeling the fear and doing what you want or need to do anyway. Karen grew up in a lot of fear, the fear of a doomsday cult, the fear of not fitting in because her household was religiously divided, and ultimately the fear for her own life due to a cult policy against blood transfusions when surgery was required. Ultimately Karen’s courage would win out and she would work her own process, a “beautiful process” as she refers to it, one that would get her where she wanted to go despite a lack of help or healthy modeling from the adults around her. Karen is shunned by Jehovah’s Witnesses, but she kept going through it all and built a life for herself, largely by herself.

The songs that Karen chose to represent her journey are Broken by lovelytheband and Unstoppable by Sia.

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Music provided by Jane and the Boy, entitled Save Myself.